Dear Wannabe: It keeps a relationship in perpetual limbo. Corbis Images. He insists we are getting married. I have bin with my man for almost 10 years … I have had to watch my friends and family one by one walk down the aisle… and it has caused me a great deal of pain. It is counterintuitive to present someone with two such distinctly opposite choices, but you may have reached the illogical, all-or-nothing stage. And in the end women like us are mentally screwed.
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Dating five years and no proposal? Time for ultimatum
I want to get married but I haven't figured out how to propose. Learn your lesson from these gals. About Contact Newsletter Terms Privacy. While there is a time and place to focus on a career or education, to constantly hear "I'm not in a place to marry anyone right now" is confusing and frustrating. Saying that out loud is so embarrassing!!!